Myth: You Can Spot Lies From Body Language
What's actually true: Do not judge honesty from eye contact or fidgeting; ask specific, checkable questions instead.
Large meta-analyses show people spot lies barely above chance and most popular cues like gaze aversion are not reliable.
What the research found
Research across hundreds of studies found lie judgments are only slightly better than a coin toss. Nervous honest people look shifty and smooth liars look calm.
What to do instead
- Ignore eye contact and hand movements as lie signs.
- Ask for specific detail: names, dates, numbers.
- Check claims later: references, records.
- Notice if the story changes when retold.
What to say
Can you walk me through what you did in that project, step by step?
Who was your reporting manager there?
Avoid
Rejecting a candidate because he did not meet your eyes. In many Indian homes, lowering the eyes is respect.
Example
A candidate for a plant manager role at a Punjab rice mill avoided eye contact. Devendra asked for project details instead and checked references; he was the strongest candidate.
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