Interests, Not Positions

When a buyer makes a demand, find the need behind it, then look for options that meet that need without simply cutting your price.

Solid evidenceFisher & Ury, Getting to Yes, 1981 · Harvard Negotiation Project; De Dreu, Weingart & Kwon, 2000 · meta-analysis

A meta-analysis of negotiation studies found that a problem-solving approach leads to better joint agreements, though most of that research uses lab negotiations, not real sales.

Why it works

Lower the fee is a position. Behind it may be I need to justify this to my MD, or cash is tight this quarter. Each interest has a different, often cheaper, solution.

How to do it

  1. When they state a demand, ask what it would help them achieve.
  2. Write down the interest behind each demand.
  3. Create several options before deciding on any.
  4. Offer options such as stage payments, a longer replacement period or a volume rate.
  5. Let them choose.

What to say

Help me understand: what would a lower fee help you with?

Is it the total amount, or when it has to be paid?

Could we look at a few ways to do this before deciding?

Avoid

Arguing over the number back and forth. It turns partners into opponents and someone has to lose face.

Example

A Nagpur agri-input firm asked Rajiv to drop his fee from 10% to 7%. When he asked why, the HR head said the finance team would not approve one large payment. Rajiv kept 10% but split it into two payments, and the deal closed.

Practise it

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